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Chinatown, New York City: Goth fashion shoot! 3Wishes Gothic punk lingerie & pajamas, Halloween devil costumes.

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If I had three wishes… One would be to have ongoing travel adventures with friends. This wish came true recently in New York: I got to hang out, eat well and shoot this Gothic look in Chinatown!

Here’s how I styled Goth nightwear from 3Wishes, including this fabulous black kimono robe with ostrich feather sleeves. (All photos Joey Wong)

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I wore it with a Luna Bats maxi dress and hand fan by Sourpuss Clothing. I’ve been modeling their dark designs for years; read their interview with La Carmina here.

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To amp up the dark glam, I wore Anastasia liquid lipstick, and these Roberto Cavalli oversized sunglasses with gold snakes on the arms.

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3Wishes is an online shop with an enormous selection of sleepwear, lingerie, costumes, clubwear, and other fun and edgy fashion. There’s something for every style — from cute hearts pajama sets, to pentagram harnesses!

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Chinatown in Lower Manhattan was the perfect place to take photos. The vibrant neighborhood reminds me of Hong Kong, with neon lights, strings of lanterns and storefronts marked with Chinese writing.

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Serving up some “Crazy Rich Asians” realness, in these giant designer sunglasses by Roberto Cavalli (get them here). They’re the RC 1047 Chianciano style.

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Although I can’t travel to Asia these days, I can still eat dumplings and wave around a fan in NY Chinatown!

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If this were a “Kung Fu Hustle” throwdown, you wouldn’t want to fight me…

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I had a hard time choosing this black satin robe with ostrich feather trim from the many decadent options on 3Wishes.com. Their selection includes many creative possibilities for Halloween costumes and cosplay…

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… including multiple Satanic options! Their sexy Halloween costumes include devil horns, pentagram harnesses, and witch dresses.

And you can pick up nightgowns and pajamas with a Goth-punk vibe. I styled this leopard print red and black lace chemise with fishnet tights (3Wishes stocks hosiery as well).

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And here’s a black satin chemise / slip with adjustable straps.

Dive into 3Wishes to find alternative swimwear, bustiers, corsets, sexy lingerie and more.

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When in New York Chinatown, be sure to eat your heart out. I snacked on a Rilakkuma-themed matcha and hojicha soft serve, from Taiyaki NYC. (They did an ice cream collaboration with the cute Japanese bear.) I also enjoyed the shrimp rolls at Joe’s Steam Rice Roll.

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Loved how these photos by Joey Wong turned out. Wearing these Cavalli luxury sunglasses, and a dress and fan from Sourpuss Clothing.

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Trick or treat… Halloween is right around the corner! Have you thought of a costume yet, or gotten any dark goodies?

(I got a skulls latte mug, and had my first pumpkin pie of the season… and I’ll be showcasing some local haunted events. Stay tuned to @lacarmina Instagram for the first look.)

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Goth Cottagecore! Dark cottage aesthetic at Lavenderland: Richmond BC lavender farm. Okanagan wine tasting tour.

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I’ve been blogging about subcultures since 2007, and it’s fascinating to see how fashion / youth culture / aesthetic trends shift with the times. In 2021, it’s no surprise that the fantastical, pastoral nostalgia of “Cottagecore” is having a moment. As the world keeps sliding into chaos, it’s understandable that people are drawn to the visual idealization of rural countryside living,

I decided to do a take on this look at a glorious local lavender farm — Lavenderland in Richmond, BC (Vancouver area). As always, I did it my dark way: call it Gothic cottagecore, CottageGore, goblincore, or whatever you’d like. If you’re a long-time reader, you’ll know we aren’t fond of labels around here!

(Read on for photos by Joyce Cheung of Ondine Photography, as well as Part 3 of my Kelowna wine travels.)

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I’m not one for light florals and gingham peasant dresses, so I wore a breezy moon dress from Jawbreaker Clothing. However, I love the wide-brimmed straw garden hats typical of farmcore / countrycore.

I’m wearing the Elgans palm fiber safari hat from Tenth Street Hats. The five inch downturn brim shades my face from the sun, and the beaded band with tassels adds flair.

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As I’ve been focusing on local explorations, I was excited to visit Lavenderland, a seven acre lavender farm in Richmond, British Columbia. (Address: 8460 Steveston Hwy.)

Lavenderland grows various species of the purple flower, using eco-friendly natural farming techniques. For those fed up with city life, this is the perfect little getaway: you can take your time to wander the peaceful fields, take photos, and enjoy time with family and friends.

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There’s no better place than a rustic floral field to shoot Goth cottagecore photos. Come around golden hour (before sunset) to capture lens flare over the rows of purple flowers. (Lavenderland images by Joyce Cheung of Ondine Photography.)

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I wish this were a “scratch and sniff” photo, so that you could get a sense of the floral aromas in the garden!

Every weekend from 11am to 4pm, Lavenderland holds an Artisan Market that is free to attend. Grab a basket and pick up local handcrafted soaps, hair accessories, beauty products, art and crafts, and more. The market also features pop-up musical performers.

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Lavenderland is much more than an Instagrammable flower farm. The staff is eager to share their knowledge with educational and interactive demos. I learned about the different types of lavender, and how they extract the essence to create naturally-scented products.

(Lavenderland grows English (Superblue and Melissa), Grosso, and French Lavender; each has a unique scent and appearance. Above is Lavandula angustifolia ‘SuperBlue’, known for its bright blue-violet petals. The deep fragrance makes it ideal for essential oils, teas and food.)

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At Lavenderland’s gift shop, you can take home a bundle of dried lavender (such as the ones in my basket), or pick up hand creams and washes, hydrasol, and oils made from the flowers in the fields. They also sell original lavender-flavored drinks from BlackBall, with ingredients like coconut milk and aloe vera (you can’t find them anywhere else in Vancouver, Canada).

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In addition to the signature fields, Lavenderland has a waterfall fountain, pagoda and gardens. Walk around, and snap dark / Goth cottage-core photos that capture the romanticized yearning for simpler times that never existed…

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Lavenderland is in bloom all summer from June to August, as the fields contain multiple varieties of lavender that blossom at different times. Soon, they’ll be transforming the space into a Halloween extravaganza… I can’t wait.

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What do you think of my take on Gothic cottage core? Love how the flowers matched my hair color.

Outfit details: sunhat with downturned brim by Tenth Street Hats. Moons dress by Jawbreaker Clothing. Photos by Joyce Cheung of Ondine Photography.

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Escape from the collapse at Lavenderland in Richmond, BC — I had the best time prancing around these fragrant fields with friends. Don’t forget to check out their weekend Artisan Market, and upcoming Halloween events.

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Since we’re talking about local travel, let’s take a look back at my trip to BC wine country (Okanagan) last fall. In the first two stories, I shared my Kelowna, British Columbia winery tours with you. This time, we’ll wander into the Naramata Bench region for more tastings.

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Last fall, I did a local trip from Vancouver to Kelowna with Flair Airlines. This Canadian airline flies to destinations throughout Canada. I’m excited for Flair to start offering routes to the USA in October 2021 — including to Palm Springs, Phoenix, Vegas, and Florida.

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During my stay, I hit up many vineyards in the region, thanks to Okanagan Executive Rentals & Concierge. The owner, Jeremy Giroux, knew the best spots — and was the best driver and guide one could wish for.

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Okanagan Executive Rentals has a number of luxury and exotic cars that you can rent — or you can hire Jeremy to drive, as I did. This way, you can sit back and enjoy the scenery, and drink wine to your heart’s content.

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Drive south from Kelowna, and you’ll pass through some of the best wine regions of British Columbia: Peachland, Summerland, Penticton, and up to the Naramata Bench. 

Jeremy stopped so I could take in this view of Okanagan Lake. In truth, I was looking for Ogopogothe legendary lake monster with a long neck, who supposedly lives in these clear waters!

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Interior British Columbia has recently been engulfed by wildfires, and the skies have been apocalyptic with smoke. Fortunately, last Oct, things were crystal clear at Okanagan Lake… even a rainbow appeared over the water.

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First stop: Mt. Boucherie Estate Winery in West Kelowna. This vineyard is known for crafting wines that draw on low yields and patient aging processes.

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Come for a tasting inside their modern West Coast building, which features wood beams and panes of glass.

You can also have a meal at their in-house restaurant, The Modest Butcher Kitchen + Market.

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Mount Boucherie farms 200 acres in British Columbia. The grapes tend to have a shorter growing season due to the northern climate, which influences the distinctive taste of the wine.

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I tasted a number of unique wines, such as the Similkameen Valley Blaufrankisch (a lesser-known German grape, which yields dry cherry and pepper notes similar to Syrah). Mt Boucherie has a propriety Summit blend of 5 grapes, resulting in intense flavors of cassis and black / red fruits. They also make an indulgent Merlot ice wine in a thicker port-style.

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Mt Boucherie’s tasting lets you get acquainted with a generous number of their wines. I was fond of the Syrah rose called “The Last Hurrah,” and the off-dry Gewurztraminer.

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Onward to the next vineyard, thanks to Jeremy Giroux. His Lincoln Navigator had spacious and luxe interiors, and I could cue up a disco mix to the sound system.

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Onward to Penticton, a hilly BC region with an outstanding terroir (soil, climate, and other environment factors that affect wine production). No wonder you can see dozens of vineyards spread out over the landscape.

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Poplar Grove is one of the most highly-rated wineries in this region. It also takes the award for most Instagrammable — check out these views from the entrance.

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BC’s Okanagan region has over 100 wineries, including small boutique ones where you can talk to the owners, and take home bottles that aren’t sold anywhere else.

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Some, like Poplar Grove, have outstanding restaurants as well. I’d come back for dinner and this view of Okanagan Lake.

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Poplar Grove is located on the slopes of Naramata Bench, the world-famous wine region that has racked up international awards. (And it’s gorgeous as well — be sure to come with a camera.)

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Poplar Grove is widely recognized for its Pinot Gris and Cabernet Franc, as well as other grapes and blends. Their Legacy flagship is an age-worth blend of red Bordeaux varietals. (Why not take home a sample box, for a little of each?)

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Poplar Grove is sustainably, locally farmed and family-owned. You can see the vines right from the window of the Tasting Room.

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Order a charcuterie board, and pair it with a glass of red. Poplar Grove has a terrific Malbec (cranberry flavors that would go well with a turkey dinner), Syrah (notes of steak, pepper, thyme, rosemary), and CSM (a medium-bodied blend of Cabernet, Syrah/Shiraz, Merlot).

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The Pinot Gris has a crisp stone fruit flavor and signature minerality, which comes from being grown on the Naramata Bench.

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The rose is a juicy blend (81% Malbec, 9% Cab, 5% Syrah, 5% Merlot). Dry and crisp, with aromas of melon and strawberry, the rose would pair well with a salad.

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Visit Poplar Grove and see why their wines helped put the Okanagan Valley on the map.

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A huge thank you to Jeremy Giroux for the concierge driving services, and for outfitting me with a sweet ride. His company’s fleet of luxurious cars include a Range Rover, Porsches, and a Lincoln Navigator.

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Okanagan Executive Rentals provides exotic car rentals and driving / chauffeur services, and delivers wonderful customer service. As a long-time local, Jeremy can tailor your trip to best fit your needs, such as recommending wineries or hotels.

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Jeremy can accommodate wine tours year-round in the Okanagan area. In the fall/winter off-season, he provides luxury ski shuttle services to the nearby BC mountains (Big White, Revelstoke, Sun Peaks).

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I’d love to come back soon to do more tastings on the Naramata Bench, in the Southern Okanagan. There are about 40 indie wineries within 14 km of winding lakefront scenery.

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For more Kelowna tips, see my previous articles about Okanagan vineyard tours and a private helicopter ride that Jeremy arranged.

And a head’s up: please check out my Depop shop @lacarmina. I’ve listed new items from my personal wardrobe and decor collection, including Gothic skull home goods.

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Finally, in travel writing news, please check out my latest Fodor’s Travel byline. I wrote about the weird, cute and unexpected spots I discovered in Waikiki, Honolulu — including a huge Miffy the bunny statue.

And I was interviewed by Insta Travel Style about travel blogging and content creation. I reveal how I fund my travels, monetize my work, negative experiences, bucket lists and more. Thank you for reading!

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