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San Jose del Cabo: Beach Goth clubs & skull mezcal bars vacation! Depop Gothic Lolita Harajuku Jrock clothing sale.
Yes, sometimes I’m a Beach Goth! (Always slathered in SPF, of course).
I spent some days in San Jose del Cabo, Mexico — which is the chiller area (partiers and tourists tend to stick to Cabo San Lucas). Read on for the most photogenic, quiet beaches and beach clubs in SJD…
… as well as some Gothic destinations in Cabo, like this Day of the Dead skeleton lady mural in the artsy town. You can also watch a reel of my trip highlights here on @lacarmina IG.
But first a pretty big announcement: I’m selling almost ALL my worldly possessions.
Including rare Gothic Lolita Visual Kei memorabilia, Harajuku punk Goth fashion (like this Lovecraftian shirt I wore to Angkor Wat), and hundreds more kawaii cute and alternative Japan items on @LaCarmina Depop.
I need to clear out everything, so if you would like anything I have, please let me know! Happy to do reductions and can ship worldwide.
TO VIEW MY CLOSET SALE: Everything is listed here @LaCarmina Depop, but no need to use the app. You can email me gothiccarmina @ gmail dot com – let me know what you’d like, and I can mail packages worldwide. Open to all offers and will do discounts. Thank you!
If you’ve been following me on @lacarmina social media, you probably saw that I had a flight cancellation fiasco that left me stranded in Los Cabos for a few extra days. Although it was a bit of a hassle to figure out a new flight and extended accommodations, I made the most of my bonus time in the sunny west coast of Mexico.
I spent a day vegetating at El Ganzo Beach Club, which is part of Hotel El Ganzo in San Jose del Cabo. No need to stay at the boutique hotel (although it looks lovely) — anyone can purchase a day pass, and take the quick, free boat across the water to the chic club!
El Ganzo’s Cabo beach club has a a private, luxe vibe — as well as this pristine beach with gentle waters.
Tip: go early so that you can grab one of the chic cabanas of shaded lounge chairs overlooking the ocean.
Love the artsy, relaxed atmosphere of El Ganzo — it’s a world away from the raucous tourist scene in Cabos San Lucas (which I didn’t even visit).
I also much prefer the weather on the west coast of Mexico — it’s a dry heat, so you can avoid humidity and mosquitoes (my ultimate nemesis, along with microplastics).
This “Goth in hot weather” kept chill and pale under the shaded cabana. Order drinks and snacks, which are served right to your lounger bed.
And always bring water, a hat and mineral sunscreen! (Goths in hot weather are a rare sight, indeed.)
These catch of the day fish tostadas with lime and a bit of spice were perfection.
Can’t beat a smoky pineapple mezcal cocktail with this view of palm trees and light waves.
I’d love to come back to spend more time at Hotel El Ganzo’s beach club. (Anyone can purchase a day pass, which includes a credit that can be used on food).
Speaking of Mexican food… there are so many scrumptious options in San Jose del Cabo, especially if you go to small restaurants outside the tourist zones. I double-fisted ice coffee and green juice at Abrejos Cafe (close to the beach), and ate generous portions of birria (above), tacos, and other local eats for low prices.
No need to stay at a pricy resort in San Jose del Cabo. You can rent an inexpensive Airbnb, and take inexpensive Ubers to public access beaches like the long Ocampo.
Wore a Y2K shrug (vintage from the early 200s) and Michi Playa dress to cover up from the sun.
Walking along a Cabo beach and dipping my toes in the waves = happiness. (See the crashing waves and more in my SJDC video on @LaCarmina IG.)
As you can see, I had Ocampo beach mostly to myself — yet another benefit of coming to San Jose del Cabo rather than crowded Cabo San Lucas.
Tip: on the western side of Playa Ocampo, there are free palapas that are first come first serve. If you arrive before noon on a weekday, like I did, chances are you can nab one.
A PSA from the sunscreen queen: please take care during the summer heatwaves. Temperatures and heat effects are stronger now than even a few years ago (hello, The Collapse!), so burns and heatstroke can creep up on you faster than you expect.
Be vigilant with SPF and coverups, seek shade, hydrate with electrolytes, and limit time outside. (I took these photos in two minutes, then put my hat back on and sought shelter,)
Nothing beats natural beach waves. I’m often asked for my hair care tips so let’s go:
– Don’t bleach / dye your own hair if you lack training. Invest in a salon that uses pro products and gentle techniques (my stylist is @katatkore in Vancouver)
– Only have your stylist bleach the roots, and don’t change the colour too much to keep it healthier
– Never overwash your hair (once a week or longer depending on circumstances), and use pro quality shampoos and conditioners, not drugstore
– After washing, gently towel dry and finish with protective hydrating serum and @dysonhairpro blow dryer (worth the investment)
– No heat tools. I use overnight rope curls for waves
– Cut off split ends & tie hair in non-damaging not-too-tight ways (like Dutch braids and with silk scrunchies, not regular elastics that encourage breakage)
– Sleep with a silk pillowcase. I also wear a silk hair cap on flights
– Nutrition and hydration make a difference (fish oils, protein, veggies, fruit)
– Don’t forget that genetics play a role!
It’s worth going a little further south and west to Playa Palmilla — one of the most gorgeous Los Cabos beaches. The rocky landscape and clear waters are “chef’s kiss.”
Palmilla Beach is also the site of One&Only Palmilla, one the most exquisite five-star resorts in Cabo (with beachfront access).
You can also kayak, paddle board, swim, snorkel and take part in other water activities. (Or just hang out and enjoy, as I did.)
Then, luxuriate at Aqua Restaurant in One & Only Palmilla resort. (I cooled off in the air conditioned area with a mezcal cocktail and these views.)
The oceanfront One&Only Palmilla is one of the most stunning places to stay in Cabo.
The One and Only’s infinity edge pool is picture-perfect, and the service here is top notch.
As you can see, I was perfectly happy to be stranded in Mexico for a few extra days!
I also explored the artsy town of San Jose del Cabo. The streets are filled with art and antique galleries, and framed by colorful banners.
I recommend eating slightly outside of SJDC, as prices here are higher. (I got cachete or cheek tacos about 8 blocks away, for $2). However, you can find Goth goods like this skull chocolate in town.
San Jose del Cabo also has an Art Walk every Thursday evening that lets you learn more about local artists and meet them at galleries. However, you can shop their wares — like these sugar skull scarves — at any time.
Look out of street art as well, such as a skeleton lady mural and Boo sticker near El Encanto Inn.
Love the joyful vibe of San Jose del Cabo, especially around sunset.
If you’re a mezcal fan like I am, a visit to Cabo Santo Mezcal (craft cocktail bar) is a must-do.
The San Jose del Cabo mezcal bar is decorated with dark skulls — this Goth felt right at home.
Try a tamarind mezcal cocktail at Cabo Santo Mezcal, and tell the friendly bartender Sergio that I sent you.
I’m trying to blend in with the plants so that I don’t have to fly home from Cabo! I hope these travel tips help you plan a chill Goth-on-the-beach vacation.
If you have any questions about Mexico travel, let me know — I’ve been to many parts of the country now! You can see my previous Mexico blogs here, and watch a video of my Cabo getaway.
And don’t forget to check out my closet clear-out @LACARMINA DEPOP – let me know if I can mail you anything!
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Puerto Rico Travels! Viator El Yunque rainforest tour review, Vianda San Juan restaurant, Condado & Isla Verde beach.
“Those grains of sand and waves are all waiting to take away what no longer serves you…”
In late May, I took some time off-line to fully appreciate Puerto Rico with one of my best friends, Molly. It was our first time on the Caribbean island, and we were intent on making the most of the uncrowded beaches and local restaurants. (Read on for a review of our outstanding dinner at Vianda.)
Read on for a guide to our favorite Puerto Rican spots, including a day trip to the lush rainforest, El Yunque, on a tour that we booked through Viator. (Still in awe over the waterfalls, rivers and mystical hiking trails…)
Molly and I stayed at an inexpensive Airbnb in San Juan, located within walking distance of Condado Beach. (I don’t recommend renting a car — you can easily Uber everywhere.) We ventured out for iced coffees and brunch at the nearby Pinky’s, and then made our way to the ocean.
(My red swimsuit is a Dolores Cortes Haiti bikini from UK Swimwear.)
San Juan has a laid-back and noncommercial feel that we loved. Condado Beach wasn’t crowded with tourists, all-inclusive resorts, or advertisements — anyone can access this public beach with picture-perfect waves.
For $20 (Puerto Rico uses US currency, as it’s a US territory), we rented an umbrella and chairs to keep us shielded from the sun. I took quick photos to show my mermaid hair… but most of the time, I’m huddled under a hat and parasol, with layers of mineral sunscreen!
Molly and I were keen to see the famous rainforest El Yunque, located an hour’s drive from San Juan. We booked this rainforest day tour through Viator, and it turned out to be one of the best small group touring experiences we’ve had.
Viator is the leading global experiences platform, with nearly 400,000 easy-to-book travel activities (including guided tours, sunset boat cruises, airport / car transfers, and more) worldwide.
I went to Viator.com and searched for Puerto Rico tours, and was delighted to find an enormous selection. I chose this El Yunque adventure on Viator (out of multiple rainforest tour options) because it had almost 100 excellent reviews, and the photos and details seemed like a perfect fit (ie, the hike was not too physically demanding).
Our outstanding guide, Isaac, picked us up directly from our San Juan Airbnb so we didn’t need to worry about transportation. After picking up four other guests from two nearby hotels, he took us on a small-group day trip to the famous rainforest, beginning at Yokahú Observational Tower.
Isaac riveted us with stories of the fascinating rainforest as he drove up the winding roads. El Yunque spans almost 29,000 acres, and is the only tropical habitat in the U.S. National Forest system. These peaks are typically rain-soaked, but we lucked out and had clear skies and views.
We walked up 98 steps to the top of Yokahu Tower for deep green panoramic views of El Yunque.
Then, our guide introduced us to Catarata Coca, a dramatic waterfall tumbling over a steep stone face and mossy boulders. (Swipe left on my Instagram post here to see video of this 85 foot tall El Yunque waterfall.)
To top it off, Isaac led us on a nature walk beneath the rainforest canopy, which opened up to one of the many rivers that flow through El Yunque. We met some charming creatures along the way, such as this curious orange lizard.
The leisurely day tour gave us plenty of time to take a dip in the Mameyes River, if we wished. While I waded around the rocks and streams, Molly dove in like a savage!
We were ready to eat after a day of rainforest exploration. Isaac drove us to a local food stand, where we could order fruit smoothies (including made from these odd banana-like avocadoes), and order Puerto Rican comfort dishes such as rice and beans, seafood croquetas, and plantain lasagna.
Molly and I are still talking about the rainforest magic we experienced on our day trip to El Yunque, which we booked through Viator. The tour included pick up and drop off, cold bottles of water, and a spectacular guide that let us dive into Puerto Rico’s rainforest.
Thrilled with our experience with Viator, a travel platform that offers flexible global bookings (with free cancellation and various payment options), and award-winning customer support.
After a long day of adventuring, Molly and I were ready to dig into dinner at Vianda. Opened in 2018, Vianda caught our eye because it consistently made the list of best places to eat in San Juan, Puerto Rico (and was named one of the 20 Best New Restaurants in America by the James Beard Foundation).
Owners Amelia Dill and Francis Guzmán brought 22 years of hospitality experience to their first restaurant. The Spanish word “vianda” comes from the Latin “vivanda,” which means a place of living. True to their name, Vianda brings to life creative and constantly changing dishes that rely on local ingredients and the flavors of Chef Guzmán’s Puerto Rican upbringing.
Vianda’s chic interiors, with trailing plants and mid-century modern wood accents, make it the perfect hangout for cocktails and dinner before a night out on the town.
The talented mixologist specializes in fresh infusions with a striking presentation. Vianda’s spin on the gin and tonic — with Botanist gin, grapefruit and rosemary tonic, citrus mist, and Gran Marnier — was the best that Molly had ever tasted.
The other outstanding craft cocktails we tried: a Cupina with mezcal, spicy chili liqueur, pineapple shrub, lime. And a Romero Apasionado with gin, rosemary passion fruit shrub, and lemon juice with the top torched for taste.
Vianda’s menu highlights fruits and vegetables from local farmers, many of whom are still working to restore their lands after the devastating 2017 Hurricane Maria. We shared an appetizer of raices locales with roasted roots, horseradish vinaigrette, dill and puffed quinoa. On the right: atun al pastor, a melt-in-your-mouth tuna with pineapple aguachile, radish, and cilantro (with peanuts on the side).
Vianda’s small farm-to-table menu is constantly evolving, drawing in a loyal clientele. (Wearing a dress by Too Fast.)
Much of the menu is anchored in the flavors of Puerto Rico, but plays with other influences such as Italian and Asian. The handmade ravioli, and striploin with chimichurri, piperade, and guanciale cream were exceptional — I wouldn’t be surprised if Vianda ends up with a Michelin star.
We didn’t want the meal to end… but at least it did on the sweetest note. In my mind, I’m still savoring the chocolate cake with white and dark chocolate mousse, vanilla and coffee pastry cream, and berries. The burnt caramel custard with cinnamon tuile, foster sauce, and caramelized bananas was also fresh and balanced.
Cheers to Vianda, a young and sophisticated restaurant that is certain to keep on making waves in San Juan.
As you can see, there’s so much to enjoy in easygoing Puerto Rico. I got more “Goth on the beach” time at Isla Verde, a beach east of San Juan. I’m wearing an outfit by Too Fast: the pentagram straps and wrinkle/water resistant fabrics were perfect for the ocean.
Molly did a surf lesson at Isla Verde, and stood up on the board for the first time! Other water sports and activities are available here, with equipment rentals and lessons at affordable prices.
Meanwhile, I relaxed on the shore. I brought my goat-head in a pentagram bag from Territory store in Osaka. (Owner Taiki-san recently passed, and his Satanic / occult shop is now closed… an enormous loss, and the Japanese dark subculture won’t be the same without him. Yet again, a reminder to make the most of life while we can.)
Hard not to smile at Puerto Rico’s warm ocean waves and uncrowded, clean beaches.
Since Puerto Rico is classified as a US territory, Americans do not require a passport to visit. Flights are also generally inexpensive from the east coast USA. (Just be careful with extra baggage fees and less-than-stellar service if you fly one of the budget airlines.)
This “Goth in hot weather” has been to a few destinations in the Caribbean. Puerto Rico stands out for its natural beauty, and San Juan is well-developed (lots of places to eat and stay) without feeling too touristic.
Old San Juan, the historic colonial district of the capital, is a must-see. We had a lovely day walking up and down the hilly cobbled streets, and admiring the colorful facades that shows a mix of architectural styles.
You’ll find lots of Instagrammable photo spots in Old San Juan. We posed in front of a door painted with a Puerto Rican flag, located at Calle de la Virtud, Viejo San Juan.
We also came across a black-and-white version of the flag, which symbolizes the people’s ongoing resistance in Puerto Rico (whether it is to colonization, corruption, or other issues).
I think you can tell we had fun moseying around Castillo San Felipe del Morro, a 16th century citadel that protected San Juan from pirates.
Next to the fortress is Old San Juan Cemetery – Santa Maria Magdalena de Pazzis, which features ornate Goth headstones overlooking the ocean.
We enjoyed peeking at the local clothing and swimwear boutiques in Old San Juan, and admiring the rainbow buildings and balconies.
Get an iced coffee at the excellent Cuatro Sombras, and have lunch at a bare-bones Puerto Rican eatery such as Deaverdura, El Jibarito, or Vaca Brava.
There’s also lots to see around the Condado beach area, including surf shops and the above bookstore. The clubbing / party district, La Placita de Santurce, is not far from here. (We weren’t into the rowdy club scene of La Placita, but loved watching locals dance la bomba, salsa, and more at the open-air Delavida.)
And be sure to taste all of Puerto Rico’s local specialties! We drank pina coladas (the coconut, rum, pineapple cocktail that originated here) and chichaito shots (made with Anisette liqueur and white Palo Viejo rum). In the district of Piñones, we had fresh-caught grouper with mofongo or trifongo (a mash made from plantains and yucca).
I hope this look back at Puerto Rico inspires you to plan a trip to the friendly island, and play in the waves yourself. (Red bikini by UK Swimwear.)
For more Caribbean travel stories, you can see my Dominican Republic adventure with Molly from five years ago (how time flies, and how things can change in unexpected ways). We’re both keen to do another trip soon… Got any destination suggestions?