Delighted to share a journalism / writing career milestone… I’m published in The New York Times “Tiny Love Stories!”

For NYT Styles – Modern Love, I wrote about how I met my best ghoul-friend, Yukiro, at Midnight Mess in Tokyo. The New York Times editor said she was moved by the submission and photos of our fabulous friendship!

In my debut essay for The New York Times, read how Yukiro and I went from partying in Japan to having adventures worldwide (above is a snap in LA from around 2012). We’ve traveled to Mexico, Lebanon, Germany, Egypt, India, Hong Kong, and many other countries so far (see our travel guides here).

Thank you for your support — it’s the reason I’m able to write meaningful, alternative stories for publications like the NY Times.

Above is a screenshot of our New York Times feature, published on NYT here. The photo is from our journey to India (vogueing in Jaipur, before we hung out with hijra or the third gender!). And here’s the text below:

“Why Not?” A night at a Tokyo goth club changed my life. I met Yukiro, a 6-foot-1 Swedish drag queen who dressed like the Bride of Frankenstein and cackled “O-ho-ho-ho!” After we tore up the dance floor, I asked Yukiro if he wanted to hang again. He answered with his catchphrase, “Why not?” A decade later, we’ve cackled and vogued at nightclubs in a dozen countries. Yukiro opened my eyes to countless others who share his fierce courage, from Lebanon’s trans artists to India’s hijra (third gender). When outsiders wonder why a drag queen is my best “ghoul-friend,” I reply, “Why not?”

— La Carmina (The New York Times Styles, Tiny Love Stories – Modern Love, 5/23/2023)

It was the Tokyo Goth subculture that brought us together… so I thought I’d give you a tour of Laforet Harajuku, the alt / youth culture department store. (Photos from my visit last fall.)

Since opening in 1978, LaForet shopping center has reigned as Harajuku’s hub of alternative fashion and art. I always come here to be inspired by the latest Jpop-influenced designs.

You’ll find all sorts of alt boutiques here, from Gothic Lolita to urban. Hangry and Angry recently revived their label, and invited me to visit them at LaForet.

Bubbles sneakers are currently the rage among Harajuku girls. These trainers feature a bubble sole.

The first floor of LaForet has collections from small, indie designers with edge.

Many of these handmade items are one-offs and can only be found in Japan.

LaForet also had vending machines of kawaii creatures.

Closeups on some of the charming handmade animals.

Everyone knows of Hello Kitty, but there are many other kawaii mascots to squeeze in Harajuku, like this minimalist bunny (reminds me a bit of Miffy).

Love the retro-altar aesthetic here.

How sweet are these plush bunnies?

LaForet is also home to the Sailor Moon Store, which is filled with character goods featuring the sailor scouts.

Usagi / Serena greets guests with gachapon machines.

You can pick up Sailor Moon keychains, candy drops, wands and more. (Remember when Yukiro and I visited the Sailor Moon Museum pop-up exhibit and cafe in Roppongi?)

LaForet Harajuku isn’t just about fashion — there’s plenty of pop culture art to discover here as well.

Anime, pastels, skulls and cute characters are the vibe here.

Laforet Harajuku has about 12 floors of fashion (some of them are “half” floors). If you have limited time, focus on the basement levels that are dedicated to Gothic, Lolita and Punk designers. (Above is a collab with Trolls dolls.)

Every type of “style tribe” is represented here. Nile Perch is all about pastels and fairy kei nostalgia.

This new boutique focused on romantic wedding dress / princess aesthetics.

A display of kimono-inspired outfits.

Love it when ancient Japanese garments meet modern streetstyle and anime.

Laforet has some food options as well, like this Milk sweets cafe that teamed up with Sanrio characters.

I couldn’t resist getting this Merry Jenny Miffy bag, in the large size!

I also got a plaid JSK dress with a cross and corset lacing, at Ank Rouge.

I was into the jirai kei (dark meets cute) styles at Ank Rouge, such as the plaid skirts and bat wing crop tops.

Lolita fashion isn’t as huge as it once was, but it still has a strong presence at Laforet Harajuku.

Although these youth styles change all the time, kawaii always dominates.

Rojita is another brand that’s all the rage right now. I see a lot of these jirai kei outfits worn around Tokyo by young women.

The platform heel patent shoes are a must (I got a pair here — the ones with the glitter heart on the side).

I was pleased to see a cyber – synthwave – vaporwave boutique as well.

The colors and prints of the 80s and 90s will never die.

As you can see, Laforet has many takes on Gothic styling.

These Lolita dresses have pentagram back straps and cross prints.

Here’s a devil bunny with horns and a pitchfork.

Amilige hails the Fallen Angel in a cute way.

A teddy bear with a Leviathan cross, horns, and bat wings… that’s Japanese Satanism for you!

I wanted everything in this store.

Pullip doll fans have a section for the big-eyed dolly.

Laforet also has a number of purikura booths (for taking photos and decorating them).

Be warned… You can spend hours and lots of yen in Laforet Harajuku…

HeiHei is a new independent brand with a distinct vibe. It was founded by Harajuku street style personalities.

The plaid and 1960s styles stood out.

The displays at Hei Hei were among the best.

The basement floors of Laforet contain multiple Goth Loli Punk boutiques.

Look for evil accessories like bat wing necklaces and eyeball bracelets.

Alice and the Pirates is a treasure chest of lacey Lolita designs, such as parasols and headdresses.

Oh my Goth. Laforet Harajuku remains Tokyo’s best spot for Gothic fashion — be sure to visit the department store you’re in the Japanese capital!

PS — I’ve been writing about Japanese alt culture for well over a decade now, and am honored to be recognized by the Tokyo Metropolitan Government.  For the Correspondents’ Eye on Tokyo series, the Metro Government interviewed me about my blogging and journalism work, in an article called: “La Carmina Shares her Passion for Tokyo and the Sparks that Keep it Aflame.”

While at Laforet, I couldn’t resist getting this purple hannya ring with horns… It matches my new book, THE LITTLE BOOK OF SATANISM. Thanks for supporting my work; it enables me to keep writing books and for pubs like The New York Times!

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